chuckyy-
Sorry to hear about the situation. Condolences to your family.
I had a similar situation - the entire cong boycotted my Mom's funeral last year - but it was all done behind closed doors - and I am neither Df'd or DA'd -
"by this all will know you are my disciples, IF you have love among yourselves' - what hypocrites and such hatred they show -
I have still not gotten over it - don't know if I will - the hateful bastards!
Wish you well.
Jeff